Friday, October 12, 2012

The western civic sense

Just as we judge a person by his character, we judge a city or a sub-urban town by the infrastructure facilities it has, right ? OK, not just infrastructure . I would say a lot of factors determine the completeness of a city. Things like public transport systems, civic administration, socioeconomic features, accessibility, environment friendly constructions etc are just a few of those. There is also something else that we would expect from the people of the city, Civic Sense. One of the major factors distinguishing Indian cities from its counterparts in Europe and Americas.

What is civic sense ? Well there is no clear cut definition but all I can say is keeping your premises clean comes under civic sense, driving obeying the traffic rules comes under civic sense and helping ourselves and others to make the city we live in a better place comes under civic sense.

I and my friend were walking on a street in Italy . It was half past 10 in the night and a lady was walking in front of us. We came across a small junction and the light was red . There was no vehicle in the near-by vicinity but the lady stood still till it became green. Now, we may think why to waste our time in such a situation when there is no danger to cross the road. But at least we could avoid all those hit-and-run cases that happen in metro cities in India, especially Delhi. It is this patient understanding of simple things that we miss as a responsible citizen. I wonder , how such a nation with such a great civilization history, rich traditional and cultural values, deep-rooted following of good ethics has become so impatient and disrespectful when it comes to obeying the rules and laws of the land. Our cities are filled with such chaos and cacophony, that we feel totally out of place when we visit a foreign land. I was dumbfounded after coming out of the Paris railway station at 9 in the morning. It was calm and quiet outside, no vehicles on the roads, very less people walking on the streets, for a minute I thought if am in the wrong place !! But even if it was a busy road, you won't hear much of horns . They wait till a cyclist gives you the way or till a pedestrian crosses the road. They wait till the car in front of you takes a left  turn or till they park and give you the way.

You can pat on yourself if you succeed to drive in cities like Mumbai, Hyderabad or Chennai without getting disgusted over your fellow drivers. Well , that's the way it is in India and we all are used to it. One of my Italian colleagues was telling me about how people don't care at all even when auto rickshaws brushes past their shoulders in a busy street in Varanasi. But, come further south and its not so horrible in Cochin or Trivandrum. Why ?? You will find out soon. The other day I was just going through some statistics of different countries and I came across this thing called the HDI - Human Development Index. Its a measure of life expectancy, income and education of the place or state under study. The max value is 1 and the more nearer it is to one , the more better is the standard of living of that place. Developed countries have this value near to 0.95. Norway, Australia, Netherlands top the table . Now, India's value is 0.547 and its rank in this list is 134, behind countries like Sri Lanka, Thailand, China and South Africa. But, if you take Kerala's value and rank it with other countries in the world, it can come in 3rd position !! Its value is 0.92 very much comparable to the developed countries of Europe and America. (HDI values of Indian states) . These values tend to change often but not much though. Now, as HDI is a direct measure of education and income, it can indirectly mean that people here know more about traffic rules or more aptly, they try to follow them.  What am trying to say is that education is a major factor in determining many things . We know we need to follow some rules . Civic sense has a relation with the education of the civilization. All socioeconomic factors like these, be it mortality rates or dowry or cleanliness, have something to do with education. Now, you know why it is not as horrible to drive in Cochin as it is in Hyderabad .

One reason why people strictly follow traffic rules or we find the western cities more cleaner and neater than ours is because if you try to deviate from the law, you have to pay a heavy price. It must be the same for people fed with golden spoon though, and I don't see any difference in that aspect between India and any other country. But see, fines are there in our country too, only factor is we can over-ride them with something called BRIBE. Scams happen there also, India is not the only country where its difficult to count the number of zeros in the scam figures. Politicians play dirty tricks everywhere in the world, but not the people. You don't need to play games with the law and rules. That's the difference. This is not a derogatory statement but a fact. The respect pedestrians and cyclists get from other drivers in the west makes us feel shameful of our own country. Well , we don't need to stop blowing horns, but we can start respecting fellow drivers and obeying rules. We don't need to start building parks to make our cities beautiful but we can stop littering the public spaces, right ?


Monday, June 4, 2012

Go Goa

Goa, a bachelor's ultimate destination, eh, or that's so I hear from everyone. Well , I too had a fantastic stay in Goa with my dear friends and wanted to blog about it for a long time. And, it again gives me an immense pleasure to write , something that we seldom do these days because of our job. Without deviating much from the subject, I must say the time we choose to visit Goa was too perfect. The places were too scenic to be missed at that time of the year and the climate was awesome. OK, OK....well yes, there were chicks all around, but for some time we thought that all the sexy chicks in India, North India to be precise, had come down to Goa to shower their beauty on us right at the same time we went there . Stunning, gorgeous, steamy and hot chicks. Well, that's why I respect the northies (ladies of course), because they are very hot.



Baga

Well I want this piece to be informative too, so , I will be telling more about the places we visited in Goa.
We camped in Baga for 3 days. It was just in-front of the Baga beach, the sexiest beach in Goa I must say. Ok, not only because its full of sexy , bikini-clad foreigners but also because its the only beach were you get to make merry from late night till early morning. Candle light dinners in front of the moon-lit beach, discos and music set the atmos for a great evening. Baga is calm in the day-light and gets naughty in the evening. You can associate different behaviors for each beach in Goa and that's the beauty of it. The Tito's disco and Britto's food is famous in Baga.


Fort Aguada

Well, I don't remember any other place where I have seen so many sexy ladies together. If the govt had a law to tax for the number of  leggy lasses you get to see there, we would have been the highest tax-payers in the country. The climate was too hot to handle basically. Fort Aguada is back dropped by the Arabian sea. The setting is perfect for a romantic song. Green grasses, brown fort walls , blue waters and the tall and fat white tower of the fort make a wonderful scene. It was built by the Portuguese and thus the name, Aguada meaning water.



Calangute Beach

Water sports. Banana ride (well am getting back on this shortly), Jet Ski , Parachute and Bumper. As soon as you get near to the premises of this beach, a flurry of agents come to  you and market their products. The above mentioned four games, for 1000 to 1400 per person. Its your bargaining expertise that determines how much you end up spending finally. We went ahead with 400 or so per person. As I was telling earlier, you can associate something sporty and adventurous with this beach.
 Started off with Bumper,         2-seater, no, not a boat but on an air-tub kind of thing. Its attached to a speedy boat and you are given a bumpy ride over the waves of the sea. For starters , this was cool. Next came the banana ride . A long air tub of the shape of banana on which 7 can sit was brought in front of us. 5 of us sat, and 2 others who steer the banana in the waters sit in the front and back. Of the five of us, I was sitting at the back, Suman in front of me, Renjith, Darshan and KK(they say his name is Krishnakumar)  were sitting further front . As soon as we set off in the waters, steering through the tiny tides, the person sitting behind me told not to keep holding the banana when you fall , just let go. I passed the info to Suman and by the time it reached KK in the front, a huge wave hit us hard, and I was clinging to the banana, a tilt away from being drowned in the waters. At that time we were like 100 meters inside the sea. "Patruniiiii......let go the ride.........", I heard Suman shouting, and then I was in the waters  and then everyone was shouting. I looked around and saw a head. I swam to the person and pulled him above and was dumbstruck to find that it was one of the two persons who were giving us the ride. I didn't see anyone and so swam back to the shore. I was terrified but felt relieved when I reached the shores. The first person I saw was KK. He came to me lifting his hand as if he had just won the 100 meters freestyle event, gave me a hi-fi and said, "Maaaaan, that was awesome, shall we do it once again??". For a moment, I thought had the waves hit his head so hard!!

Then Suman and Renjith came along, and finally Darshan. Thank god, all were alive. Darshan, according to what they had to say, had drank so much of water that he could have replaced the water-tanker in Calangute. Suman was relieved to see himself near to Darshan and Jammy(Renjth) when they fell down, at-least even if you drown you have got company, that's what he thought. But a huge wave came and they were all separated. No one saw KK shouting or floating by. I really doubt KK for the fall. He might have given a hearty laugh when the ride started and the banana lost the balance. Well we had life-jackets to keep us afloat but it was terrible to be there among the waves and your feet not touching the ground .

After this we took the Jet-Ski. Two persons and one rider. The next thing I heard was that the ski on which Renjith and KK were there lost its balance and they again had a fall in the waters. This time it was more further away from the shore. Luckily, the rider pulled them from the waters and they came back. Even the ski rider might have experienced this for the first time in his life, thanks to two very lucky persons he was giving the ride to. Well, this is what KK had to say after he had the second fall , "Ecstasy!!". And now we all know who caused both the falls.